Tuesday, June 27, 2017

What Goes Around Comes Around!


Dear Mini,
This day I remembered him all my life. Lorenzo began the insertion of the kindergarten. Two hours I turned away to watch it half an hour. Lorenzo is a baby who looks a lot and does not give smiles, I resemble a lot, but when he loves you he loves you. Today he has seen everything in the smallest detail. He already has a teacher who prefers, an Italian friend Matteo, who takes care of him, does not leave him for a moment and a little girl to whom he gives great smiles. He did not cry but he was lying to me when he wanted to be reassured, asking me permission to take the game that Matteo gave him. You wonder what's wrong with all this ?!
My heart.
I lie down in the morning because I thought this moment would never come, I feel as though I amps an arm. I think that if I have to suffer like this again, I will not make a second son. So in my head is Apocalypse Now, do you have any idea? How many times have I heard "if he cries is normal" when it might have been better to hear me say "when you want to cry come here I'll give you my shoulder." Yes, because you know he will be pampered and embraced until he quits. And that's just to destroy me, "I will not embrace him."
I have always been, the only one who has been busy with him day and night.
But then I saw a two year old daughter crying, she was also admitted, she was at the second week and still cried she just wanted to be in the walker and watch others playing. I thought my son can not just stay with me, there are so many nice things and people to discover.
Children who grow up with other children are different, twisted.
So I want you to be, my love.
And to those who say that the problem is that today women want to have everything, work, stay with their children, make a good life. I say that the problem is theirs because they would not need it if there was the perfect balance in the house, one hand washes the other, I do this while you care about this other one. Of course there are women who take advantage of it but are the exception. I am sure that there would be many more happy moms in the world if there were more dads there. I work with Daniele about it, but he loves his son and there has been a huge improvement since Lorenzo was born. He will start working just eight hours a day and not fourteen and will enjoy free time with me and Lorenzo. I cannot wait. In short, you will understand that there are both positive and negative sides in each change ... the important thing is not to face them alone.

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Cari Mini,
questo giorno lo ricordero' tutta la vita. Lorenzo ha iniziato l'inserimento all'asilo. Due ore di cui mi sono allontanata a osservarlo mezz'ora. Lorenzo é un bambino che osserva molto e non regala sorrisi, mi somiglia molto, ma quando ti ama ti ama. Oggi ha osservato tutto nei minimi dettagli.Ha già una maestra che preferisce, un amichetto italiano Matteo, che si prende cura di lui, non lo lascia un attimo e una bambina alla quale regala grande sorrisi. Non ha pianto ma si lanciava verso di me quando voleva essere rassicurato, per chiedermi il permesso di prendere il gioco che Matteo gli porgeva.Mi chiederete cosa c'è che non va in tutto questo?! Il mio Cuore. Piango la mattina perché credevo che questo momento non sarebbe mai arrivato, mi sento come se mi hanno amputato un braccio. Penso che per non soffrire di nuovo cosi' non faro' un secondo figlio. Insomma nella mia testa c'é l'Apocalypse Now, avete presente? Quante volte mi sono sentita dire "piangerà é normale" quando forse sarebbe stato meglio sentirmi dire "quando vuoi piangere vieni qui ti porgo la mia spalla". Si, perché lo sai che lui sarà coccolato e abbracciato finché non smetterà. Ed é proprio questo a distruggermi dentro "non saro' io ad abbracciarlo".
Io che fino ad ora ci sono sempre stata, l'unica che si é occupata di lui giorno e notte. Ma poi ho visto una bimba di due anni piangere, faceva inserimento anche lei, era la seconda settimana e ancora piangeva voleva solo stare nel passeggino e guardare gli altri giocare.Ho pensato che mio figlio non può' stare solo con me, ci sono tante cose e persone bella da scoprire.I bambini che crescono con gli altri bambini sono diversi, spigliati. Così' voglio che sia tu, amore mio.
E a chi dice che il problema é che oggi le donne voglio avere tutto, lavorare, stare con i figli, fare la bella vita. Io rispondo che il problema sono proprio loro perché non ce ne sarebbe bisogno se ci fosse il perfetto equilibrio in casa, una mano lava l'altra, io faccio questo mentre tu ti occupi di quest'altro. Certo poi ci sono donne che se ne approfittano ma sono l'eccezione. Sono sicura che al mondo ci sarebbero molte più mamme felici se ci fossero papà più presenti. Io con Danieleci sto lavorando ma lui ama suo figlio e c'é stato un enorme miglioramento da quando Lorenzo é nato.Tra poco inizierà a lavorare solo otto ore al giorno e non quattordini e si godrà il tempo libero con me e Lorenzo. Non vedo l'ora. insomma avrete capito che in ogni cambiamento ci sono i lati positivi e quelli negativi... l'importante é non affrontarli da soli.

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